When I was king of the castle, people were always surprised that I did any "day" work for my nightlife career. They actually believed I woke up at 4pm, had a swanky brunch, went to a boutique, bought a dozen expensive looks (on the cheap), had dinner at the best place in town (on the cuff), and then showed up at work (game-face on), barked some orders, and waited for the fabulous to show up. Nightlife doesn't just happen. The few that make it look easy are the ones that rarely sleep and are completely enveloped in their work. It's a thousand phone calls, a million texts, tweets, tumbles, and face-to-face meetings – yes, people still do that. It's adjustments of what ain't working, and refining of what ain't broke. It's a thousand small things that add up to big bucks at the end of the year. You are never alone, but you often feel isolated and detached. My ex used to say that when I opened a club, it was as if I was its heart and I had to keep beating or it would simply not work. An old adage that I always kept close said, "It's not just a nightclub...but a way of life.”
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